These are my laptop wallpaper and lock screens respectively. Please have them. You are welcome to them. The top one is from Avengers: Children’s Crusade and the bottom is from Young Avengers Vol.2. Edited by me. Ta
broke: vision created a new family because he doesn’t care about billy and tommy
woke: Vision created Viv, Vin and Virginia because he had (and continues to have) a lot of unresolved issues stemming from Billy and Tommy, and his past relationship with Wanda.
He was White Vision and lacked the ability to feel emotions at the time the twins were taken and his relationship with Wanda fell apart, and he never had the opportunity to grieve or otherwise come to terms with this loss. By the time his emotions were restored, he had rationalised these events logically but was still stuck without emotional closure, and as Wanda’s memory of those events had been erased, he was unable to talk or receive support from the one person who should have understood his pain better than anyone.
Furthermore, just when he began to rekindle this relationship with Wanda, her memories were triggered and the subsequent events of Avengers Disassembled caused by her fragile mental state resulted in his death. Regardless of whether Wanda herself was truly responsible for her actions, it is understandable that the manner of his death (which involved Wanda forcing him to attack their friends and playing into his deepest, most intimate fear) would drive an even greater rift between them and cause him to distance himself from her and the things he associates with her, such as their children.
As such, he was never given any kind of opportunity to come to terms with losing Billy and Tommy. Even though he did reach out to them, one meeting cannot cure years of emotional struggle, and seeing Billy surrounded by such a loving family as the Kaplans would only have served to emphasise how he was not needed in his life, hence why he has not tried to be more of a father figure to him (and while Tommy is certainly in need of this, Tommy is also a difficult person to reach and is incredibly guarded due to his own past, making him less receptive to such a relationship. It is very unlikely that Vision would contact Billy without also expressing a desire to meet Tommy, therefore one can only assume that it was Tommy who chose not to be at Billy’s house for their meeting).
TL;DR: While Vision does care about the wellbeing of his sons, he feels a huge level of disconnect with them, does not feel wanted or needed in their lives, and until he had a new family had no outlet for any of his unresolved emotional turmoil. While it could certainly be argued that creating a new family instead of trying to connect with the one he had was “taking the easy way out”, it speaks to the fact that Vision is a flawed and deeply, deeply human character struggling with loss. None of this in any way detracts from Viv’s personhood, the fact that Vision loves her very, very much, and how badly they need each other.